CHAPTER 2: Self-Lies

Lie #2: “I Must Have Everyone’s Love and Approval.”

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13.	What is the lie believed by a “pleaser?”
14.	How did Denise’s need for approval become a no-win situation for her?
15.	What are some of the dangers of believing this lie?
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16.	What is the secular truth that combats this lie?
17.	a) We learn the theological truth about this lie in Colossians 3:22-24. When employees are working at their job, should their first priority be seeking the approval of their boss? Yes No
	b) Who should they fear more than the boss? (vs. 22)
18.	When we are at work, in what way should we perform our tasks? (vs. 23)
19.	What does Paul say about the “pleasers” lie in Galatians 1:10?
20.	There is a clear difference between always trying to do for others for the sole purpose of pleasing them, and doing for others because you are thoughtful. The Book of Ruth is the unique story of a woman who showed thoughtfulness for others, but was not simply trying to be a “pleaser.” Read Ruth 1:1-22.
21.	What tragedies did Naomi experience in Moab?
	a) vs. 3:
	b) vs. 5:
22.	What did Naomi think her daughters-in-law should do? (vs. 8-9)
23.	What clue do we read in this verse that indicates Ruth is thoughtful of others? (vs. 8)
24.	What decision did Ruth make at this time?
25.	a) Do you believe Ruth was simply trying to be a “pleaser” in this situation? Yes No
	b) Explain your answer.


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